Jan 19th

Genesis 20     Nehemiah 9     Matthew 19     (Click on the Reference to go to the passage)


"For me Christianity is very simple", announced my first headmaster in assembly. "Actually, I find it really difficult", whispered a Catholic colleague. Both were correct. In many ways Jesus described following Him as simple. His description of marriage in vv4-6, His encouragement of a childlike faith vv14,15 and His affirmation of Peter in vv28-30 all suggest that a straightforward trust in Him and a simple willingness to obey result in a rich relationship with God leading to fulfilment in this life and incredible rewards in the next. The difficulties come as a result of being fallen creatures in a fallen world. We mess up on relationships. We fear the commitment of a childlike faith, as did Abraham in today's Genesis reading, and, like the rich young ruler, we allow, sometimes unwittingly, something else to be more important than knowing and loving God. The glorious news is that God is in the business of finding ways round our difficulties, and however much we may have messed up, He does not give up on us. So being divorced, far from blocking us out of God's presence, only reveals more of his provision and loving acceptance of us. Our fear of simple faith and obedience, leading to sin, and possibly disastrous consequences, as with Abraham, or even as serious as Israel's collective sin, that led to the exile, can be forgiven through repentance and faith in the Sacrifice that Abraham, the Israelites and even those hearers of Jesus, could hardly imagine, but that we can accept and know. Yet even with all our privileges as Christians, we can fall for the same trap as the rich young ruler and put something else before God. The solution for this does not only come from Him, but requires action from us too, and here's the difficulty we've got ourselves into - are we really prepared to give up whatever we're putting before Him? Of course, it may not be money - but it might be!

(homegroup member)

Jan 18th

Genesis 19     Nehemiah 8     Matthew 18     (Click on the Reference to go to the passage)


‘I just can’t forgive her for doing that’. Have you ever said or thought that?
Jesus is saying that those who have understood, who celebrate and remember daily God’s forgiveness CAN and will want to forgive others. He wants us to be tools of that kind of love and forgiveness.  But it is only when we have really grasped the bigness of what God has done in forgiving us that we are able to begin on that road.  Have you been overwhelmed by God’s forgiveness?
This is a dramatic story, the baddy is very bad. The person who was harmed by his lack of forgiveness was HIM. Not forgiving harms us not the person we need to forgive.
But what does forgiving someone mean? What is forgiveness? What if the person shows no sign of remorse? 
Forgiveness means you stop holding something against someone, you relinquish the right for revenge, for repayment .You trust that person to God’s justice. Forgiveness is not easy. It is a daily choice. It is hard work.
Perhaps it means you relinquish even thinking about it, stop chewing it over. But it will be your choice, sometimes holding onto thoughts and feelings feels safer than change.
Forgiveness doesn’t mean the trust is restored. That can take time and may never happen.
Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. Matt 6.13
But he who has been forgiven little loves little. Luke 7.47

(homegroup member)

Jan 17th

Genesis 18     Nehemiah 7     Matthew 17     (Click on the Reference to go to the passage)



At this very split second in time, God is much closer to you than you think. In two of our passages today the line between earth and heaven becomes wafer thin.
When Abraham meets the three visitors (many Christian traditions hold that this is the Trinity), they speak the very words of God. “Is anything too hard for the Lord?” God promises Abraham a son despite the odds. In his very next conversation with the visitors, Abraham stops bartering below ten, as perhaps he’s beginning to understand the greatness of God’s mercy and that God would save just even one righteous man - and as we’ll see, He does -Abraham’s nephew Lot.
Exactly a week after Peter’s ‘mustard-seed’ confession of “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God” he is given the ‘mountain-moving’ revelation of Jesus transfigured in all His glory fulfilling the Law, Moses, and the prophets, Elijah. (An extraordinary moment not just for the disciples but for Moses too, who finally saw the face he had previously hidden from.) And the disciples inability to heal the epileptic boy shows how much they needed this ‘mustard seed’ faith, a faith that Jesus still demands from all his disciples - a faith that can move mountains. “Nothing will be impossible for you” And we know this applies even more to us, because God is not just close, but by His Holy Spirit, He lives in us. And what of the curious story of the coin and the fish? Jesus knew they were both exempt from the temple tax but to have argued would have just wasted time. Maybe Jesus was just trying to buy time with his friend Peter. He wants to spend as much time as he can with us too. He wants us to be in the place where the line between earth and heaven is wafer thin.

(homegroup member)

Jan 16th

Genesis 17     Nehemiah 6     Matthew 16     (Click on the Reference to go to the passage)

Last weekend we were at a wonderful wedding in a beautiful country church. We parked the car some distance away and walked along the lane to the service. Just as the bride and groom made their way back down the aisle the heavens opened. Unprepared for the downpour our entire family sought shelter under one rather small Cath Kidston umbrella. The umbrella provided wonderful protection for those of us underneath it – but no benefit at all for those outside of its protection who arrived back at the car in a somewhat bedraggled state!
Genesis 17 reminds us of the protection and blessing that is available to those who choose to place themselves under the protection of the covenant.
The concept of covenant is fundamental to both Old and New Testament, in describing God’s relationship with his people. In the ancient world covenant described the terms of a treaty between two neighbouring states. The more powerful King (the ‘Suzerain’) would offer protection and blessing to the less powerful King (the ‘Vassal’) who in return would pledge faithfulness, loyalty and exclusive reliance on his protection not only for himself but on behalf of his descendants.
In v1 God appears to Abraham and initiates the covenant. He makes it clear that in return Abraham needs to pledge obedience, ‘the obedience that comes from faith’ (Romans 1 v5). Circumcision is given as the outward sign of the covenant, not just for Abraham as an individual believer but for his descendants and future generations.
The glorious truth is that we are inheritors of this promise under the New Covenant.
Today let us choose to be obedient and wholehearted in our commitment to him, placing ourselves under the umbrella of His protection provision and blessing.
Gen 17 v1 ‘I am God Almighty, walk before me and be blameless.’

(homegroup member)

Jan 15th

Genesis 16     Nehemiah 5     Matthew 15     (Click on the Reference to go to the passage)


“Live at peace with everyone” is a frequent command in the bible (Rom 12v18, 1 Tim 2v2, Heb 12v14). We might translate this in our own minds as ‘do your best not to give offence’. Does that sound reasonable? In today’s passage we see Jesus being really offensive to the Canaanite woman – likening her to a dog (v26) and offending the Pharisees so much that the disciples speak up for them (v12)!
What of you and me? How quick are we to take offence? Are there home truths we need to hear? The Pharisees worked very hard at being holy; doing what they believed to be the right things. They took offence when Jesus challenged their traditions and rules about external behaviour. Jesus knew these were powerless to change the human heart. Are we in danger of trying to do things in our own strength; following a faith of ‘rules taught by men’?
The Canaanite woman didn’t take offence at being likened to a dog but used the blunt truth (that she was not an Israelite) to recognise her status before Jesus and nonetheless ask for “crumbs from the table”. In engaging with Jesus she was commended for showing “great faith” (v28).
How good are we at telling or receiving difficult truths? Are we quick to duck the issue and opt out of challenging others or when confronted argue our corner, self justify or just go off in a huff! Perhaps we should be more like Nehemiah, when giving rebuke, he did not act in anger (Neh 5v6) but rather “pondered [the charges] in [his] mind” (v7) before acting. Or the Canaanite woman: looking for the truth in what might offend, engaging with Jesus and responding with humility.

(reflections for the week 15th - 21st January written by members of a homegroup)

Jan 14th

Genesis 15     Nehemiah 4     Matthew 14     (Click on the Reference to go to the passage)


"Abram believed the Lord, and he credited it to him as righteousness." God promised Abram that he would have a son and heir and that his offspring would be as numerous as the stars in the sky.  This promise finds its fulfilment not only in the nation of Israel but also in all people who have become heirs of his kingdom through faith in Christ.
Abram simply took God at His word and relied on His promise and was justified by faith.  This is the first mention of faith in the Bible and Paul refers to this passage in establishing the New Testament principle of justification by faith in Romans 4.
God made his promise clear to Abram by instructing him to make a sacrifice. Abram divided the sacrificed animals (except the birds) into two parts and laid each half on the ground opposite each other as was the custom of the day in making a covenant.  The idea was that in providing a passage between the divided animals both parties to the covenant would walk between them and
around them usually in a figure of eight pattern.  The agreement was that if either party should break the covenant, they would be cut in half as the animals were.  This covenant still stands open: Jesus is the Lamb slain before the throne and we can all ratify the covenant for ourselves by believing and trusting in Him.


(Men's Ministry Leadership Member)

Jan 13th

Genesis 14     Nehemiah 3     Matthew 13     (Click on the Reference to go to the passage)


Matthew 13 v1-9
This parable of the sower is probably very familiar to you. Is it possible to read it again today and to hear afresh a warning or encouragement from God?
What is the nature of the seed?

It is not made by the sower, nor is it something the sower does. The seed is the word of God, and as Jesus explains to the disciples, the growth of the plant mirrors a response to hearing a message spoken. The sower does not seem to target only the good soil - perhaps from outward appearance he cannot tell the state of the soil. He distributes the seed liberally. Every farmer knows that some of his seed will be lost - but this does not discourage him or stop him sowing. Do we hold back, keeping the seed in our pocket, waiting for the perfect moment, the ideal patch of soil?
What is the state of your soil?

The garden of our souls is probably a mixture of all four types of soil - some areas more productive than others. Gods' desire is to see a great yield from our lives - where do we need his help to prepare the ground?


(Men's Ministry Leadership Member)